thirteenthprophet
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Post by thirteenthprophet on Jan 17, 2007 18:39:15 GMT -5
I have a question.
I know this kid named Kodie. He got kicked out of school for smoking pot in a bathroom, but whatever.
I met his girlfriend, and she's the most amazing person I've ever met, but I only like her as a friend.
When I asked her to call me and not tell Kodie, he found out and now he's threatening to beat the crap out of me.
I don't care really, but what do you think I should do? I can beat the kid, but I don't really want to hurt him over something so ill thought-out.
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Post by Miguel on Jan 17, 2007 20:16:18 GMT -5
Simple. Just get one of his threats on tape and take it to the police. They'll handle it from there. Stooping to his level and just beating the living s*it out of him won't do you any good.
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Post by Ruinaru on Jan 17, 2007 23:29:37 GMT -5
Just tell him you only like her as a friend. If that doesn't work, do what Miguel said. No point in soiling your hands with something so petty.
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Post by Nightmare on Jan 18, 2007 0:31:22 GMT -5
I think calling the police is a little extreme. Try using your words, and if that doesn't work and he attacks you, fight back in self defense. Even if you don't want to hurt him, you can't just keep running from him, and getting him thrown in jail is alot worse than beating him up and will thus defeat the point of not wanting to hurt him. >.>
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Post by SLA¥ΣR on Jan 18, 2007 19:09:39 GMT -5
Diplomacy first(if possible), then comes war
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Post by Paranoid on Jan 19, 2007 19:45:56 GMT -5
And make sure you dont get a criminal record from fighting, U don't want that hanging over you for the rest of your life, makes it harder to get jobs and stuff
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Post by t0y on Jan 29, 2007 21:44:43 GMT -5
actually if He's under 18 he can beat his ass and get away with it if he has sufficient blackmail to ensure his victory if it should come to a legal jurisdiction. Therefore, beat his ass. He doesn't deserve his girl if he's going to get violent over you talking to her. she isn't property.
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Post by Model O MkII "DARK ELF!!" on Jan 30, 2007 17:39:13 GMT -5
Or he could cower in a corner. jk.
Just approach him and explain. And to keep things clear with him you could stop saying things like "I met his girlfriend, and she's the most amazing person I've ever met". that ", but I only like her as a friend" thing, doesnt sound like shiot to him....
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Post by Fusion on Feb 14, 2007 11:48:07 GMT -5
Approaching in this case would NOT be a good idea. Why?
The threat has already been made. If Draine here were to even TRY approaching Kodie, it'd end up in a fight for sure. The best part would be to record every threat that's made, then contact the police with the information. Nightmare is far too forgiving.
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Post by Miguel on Feb 14, 2007 16:32:17 GMT -5
Or, you could try to get him in a head lock, to keep him still. Then try to talk him down and let him go when he sees your side. Or just tell his gilfreind about the whole thing, and she'll dump his jealous ass. Trust me. Also: I'm aware that this thread is most likley irrelevant now, as considering how long ago this topic was brought up, the event may have come to pass. But information on avoiding conflict can and will come in handy, in everyone's future. End of post.
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Post by Model O MkII "DARK ELF!!" on Feb 14, 2007 16:42:28 GMT -5
it's hard to put a guy 2x ur size in a headlock.......... andim sure this is over already...
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Post by J.Y. on Feb 18, 2007 7:49:19 GMT -5
I think calling the police is a little extreme. Try using your words, and if that doesn't work and he attacks you, fight back in self defense. Even if you don't want to hurt him, you can't just keep running from him, and getting him thrown in jail is alot worse than beating him up and will thus defeat the point of not wanting to hurt him. >.> Simple. Just get one of his threats on tape and take it to the police. They'll handle it from there. Stooping to his level and just beating the living s*it out of him won't do you any good. Approaching in this case would NOT be a good idea. Why? The threat has already been made. If Draine here were to even TRY approaching Kodie, it'd end up in a fight for sure. The best part would be to record every threat that's made, then contact the police with the information. Nightmare is far too forgiving. Guys, i think that calling the police is a nice choice, since you got nowhere else to run or go. But IF you called the police, will he forgive you in the end? No matter how hard you convince him after that, i doubt he'll forgive you, although he won't dare to touch any part of him again. If there's a chance, i suggest that you talk to him face to face. Seriously, i'm not joking or trying to bring ACYDraine down, but that's the only way to solve the problem, leaving both of you friends again. Don't make assumptions saying that you will go down if you approach him or not, just try and talk to him, nicely or anyway you feel easy to, DO NOT lead the conversation into a fight involving the police. Well, this is just my suggestion to you man. He may threatened you, but don't make him revengeful just because of you. Try not to lead this situation into a bad turn. But whether right or wrong, do what is suitable to you. Do your best, and god will do the rest. Well, that's not true if you don't believe in god though....XD
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Post by Paranoid on Feb 18, 2007 12:01:24 GMT -5
yea...if u do the whole police stuff, u could loose the girl as a friend..and it's sorta all wasted
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Post by Miguel on Feb 18, 2007 12:31:27 GMT -5
That's why I sugeusted the head lock manuver. Or play the whipped card. Starnge how emotions can turn a violent demon-child into a cowering little kid.
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